People love to say boys are harder to potty train. In our house, the biggest difference wasn't being a boy. It was learning his signs and staying consistent. Here's what worked when we trained our son.

We had him sit for both pee and poop at first. Sitting means:

• He learns that poop goes in the potty too, not just pee
• Less mess while he's learning
• One simple routine instead of two

Standing can come later, once he's going reliably. Many boys pick it up naturally from watching dad or an older sibling. When it's time, a few cereal pieces in the toilet make aiming a fun game.

Tip: If he's sitting, teach him to gently push down so pee goes into the potty, not over the edge. A seat with a small splash guard helps.

Our son hid behind the couch when he needed to go. Once we noticed the pattern, we'd say, "Let's go potty," and walk him there. Every boy has a cue: hiding, going quiet, grabbing himself, or suddenly stopping play. A cue tracker helps you spot it in a day or two.

"Let's go potty." "Pee and poop go in the potty." Same words, every time, from everyone. It makes a huge difference.

Many toddlers, boys and girls, hold their poop or don't want to go on the potty. What helped us: sitting him on the potty right before bath time, when he was relaxed. If it happened after the bath, we didn't stress.

If he's holding it for days or it seems to hurt, talk to your pediatrician. Constipation is common and very treatable.

Pants-off days at home help him feel what's happening. There will be accidents. Put down towels, keep cleaning supplies handy, and stay calm. Praise every success with a big "Good job!" and a hug.

If there's a dad or another man in your child's life, let your son watch and copy. Kids learn a lot by imitation. But you don't need it. Sitting works great for learning.

What looked like a regression with our son later turned out to be a medical issue. If accidents come back suddenly and nothing has changed, or he seems uncomfortable, don't guess. Call your pediatrician.

Grab the free Potty Training Starter Kit with a cue tracker and sticker chart. For the full plan, The Prep-First Potty Plan walks you through a week built for busy parents.